Parshas Acharei Mos (5760)

Parshas Acharei Mos (5760)
by Mordechai Dolinsky

Here we are after Pesach, it is so important to crystallize the points of inspiration we attained and to internalize them.  It’s Parshas Acharei and the sobering subject of Yom Kippur comes to focus.  The fact that it is on the topic agenda is a special hashgacha that we benefit from. We are about to initiate the summer season, after Maaravi, as Pesach leaves the minhag here in Yerushalayim is that everyone wishes each other “a gezunte zummer”, a healthy summer!!  And now to find a connection for all this.

The second subject dealt with in the parsha is “arayos”, sexual offenses.  The fact that this subject was selected to be the partner of Yom Kippur is no wonder, as the Chazal point out that ‘arayos’ is responsible for most of our spiritual pitfalls.  Likewise we read this portion on Yom Kippur.  All this puts our focus on the subject of ‘arayos’, a very sensitive and delicate issue.  The most important, valuable and helpful advice is to do everything in the range of our available avenues of efforts to avoid situations that present a test.  This mentality as simple as it may sound is really diametrically opposed to the “are you a man or a mouse” way of thinking we find so prevalent today unfortunately.  The attitude of the Torah is that we do anything and everything in our power to avoid or limit our “nisayon”.  Reb Yisroel Salanter points out that when Yaakov Avinu informed Rochel and Leah that HaShem instructed him to leave the house of Lavan, they remarked to one another that firstly they had nothing to gain by staying and secondly HaShem had instructed them to leave.  The difficulty is obvious, they should have reversed the order.  Reb Yisroel explains that we are witnessing here a classical demonstration of this important principle of dealing with nisyonos, limit them as much as possible.  Don’t say I’m happy to find ways of showing my faithfulness to Hashem and prove your strength and loyalty.  Are you a man or a mouse?  From our own vantage point—we run….   In Yerushalayim they say—have a healthy summer.  Someone just told me in America they say—Kayitz Kasher V’Sameach!!!  Gut Shabbos.

Getting the Most out of Pesach

Getting the Most out of Pesach
By Mordechai Dolinsky

Everything that we do the whole year is affected by the level of our Emunah, the belief in HaShem as the Creator and the Supreme source of the world’s continued existence.  Every single object, all energy, and systematic sense of order are present only by His will.  Every test, ordeal, and trial, be it something we are responsible to HaShem for, or to our fellow man, in order to be properly motivated we must draw from our reservoir of Emunah.  The main source of this spiritual nourishment of Emunah is the Yom Tov of Pesach.  The main time for this is the seder night, during the seder, with the fulfillment of the Mitzvos and the rest of the night.  It is extremely essential to bear this in mind.  The central focus of the seder is to acquire the Emunah for oneself, to inspire one’s children, family, and guests.  I would suggest to concentrate during the seder on these essentials, and not to cloud it with complicated commentaries.  Be sure to begin the seder on time, and it should be done with “zerizus”, lively and interesting.  After the seder, the rest of the night is the time to delve in greater depth into Yetzias Mitzraim.

The Brisker Rav ztz”l, with his keen sense for the truth, points out that the public at large has made a priority error.  Shavuos night it is only a custom to keep awake, primarily based on Kabbalah sources, and yet it is so popularly observed, very often at the expense of the simcha of the Yom Tov.  To the contrast of the seder night, staying up is of such extreme importance that it is even mentioned in the Hagaddah itself.  Yet, we don’t find this custom so popular among the public.  The proper perspective is that the night of the seder is so precious and every moment has in store the ability to enable us to acquire Emunah.

Another important issue is the evenings of Chol HaMoed.  It was always a big question as to what exactly was the avoda of these special times.  On Succos we have the gift of the Simchas Bais HaShoevah.  But what about Pesach?  Then finally came the realization that the preceedings of the seder night is a prototype example as to how the rest of the evenings of Pesach should be spent, ‘sipur yetzias mitzraim’—being inspired by the great miracles and the acquisition of Emunah.

Here I sit in Yerushalayim, hoping yet to be able to bring the Korban Pesach this year.  We should be zocheh soon to the Geulah Sh’layma.  Chag Kasher V’Sameach to all.

Parshas Tazria: Time-out Just For a Breather

Parshas Tazria:  Time-out Just For a Breather
By Mordechai Dolinsky

The joy of birth, the simcha, the ecstasy, is broken by the sobering agent of ‘tumas adam’ that the ‘yoledes’ is subjected to after giving birth.  The laws of tumah and tahara are definitely  “chukim”, the area of Torah that is purely “gizeiras hakasuv” that there isn’t any open, apparent reason for.  There is however, a certain negativity always associated and connected with ‘tumah’; why should giving birth bring this on?

The supreme, ultimate goal of the human race is accomplishment.  Man harnesses his power, enlists what he has at his availability, accesses his accessibilites and surveys what he has in his arsenal.  With the event of the climax of his accomplishment there is certain frame of mind, a mentality, to which we are all prone.  All the energy is gathered and the cannon shoots the shell.  What power it takes, all the resources have been used, the maneuver worked and  “struck bull’s-eye”, but then comes the “burnt out” syndrome.  After all the energy and enthusiasm has been expended and the venture has ended as a great success story, there comes an aftermath of some kind of ‘down’.  I would like to share the thought of the possibility that the negativity of this P A D, Post Accomplishment “Down”, is related in a symbolic way to the “tumas hayoledes”.  Unfortunately there is a history of authors, artists, and other accomplished people who have fallen to this syndrome—and who knows if the post birth depression that affects many women isn’t also related to this.

The Mesilas Yesharim in chapter 7 explains the awesome danger of losing the opportunity of accomplishing some ‘mitzvah’ or other great act.  He points out how much of a great effort must be exerted to begin the act without procrastination, so as not to lose the chance of what presented itself.  The Mesilas Yesharim also explains as stage two the great effort one has to put in to ensure that he will finish the act.  I am introducing stage three.  After one has successfully attained the goal one wishes to accomplish one has to see to go on and maintain one’s motivation with continued enthusiasm.   Hatzlacha Rabba to you all.

Parshas Shmini: The Torah Tightrope

Parshas Shmini:  The Torah Tightrope
by Mordechai Dolinsky

Something obvious in this Parsha that needs explanation is the connection between the two outstanding subjects—the dramatic, untimely petirah of Nadav and Avihu—and the list of creatures that are forbidden to be eaten.

There are two attributes that are required for animals to be permissible.  Firstly there is the split hoof which has to be completely separated into a double hoof and as Rashi explains this is to exclude animals whose hooves are split only at the tip as the camel.  The second attribute is that the animal has to bring up its cud and as Rashi here explains it brings up and regurgitates the food from its innards and returns it to its mouth to crush it and grind it finely.  The conventional of these prerequisites are in the realm of “chukim”;  pure “gizairas hakasuv”– without any open logical significance.  It seems very probable to me that because these are signs of ‘kashrus’ they are representative and symbolic of positive character traits.  To find significance in “maaleh gaira”, bringing up its cud, is not so difficult.  A major part of the motivation to eat is the appetizing appearance of the food.  Once the morsel is chewed it already dramatically loses all its attraction.  The Gemara in Bava Kamma refers to it at this level as “glalim”—excretion– and I must say it is quite repulsive.  But what could be said of its looks when it has already been in the stomach and in the early stages of the digestive process?  The mere thought of eating it then is absolutely revolting.  The act of actually consuming it, which is in reality the “maaleh gaira”, is truly symbolic of eating on the highest level of pure intent, since there is absolutely no motivation of any appetizing attraction whatsoever.  So here we have it—“maaleh gaira” represents “prishus”—the practice of restraint, abstaining from indulgence.

The split hoof, however, is very difficult to find a symbolism or significance for, and I would like to share the following possible explanation.  The point of the split hoof is as if the animal isn’t only standing on four feet but the feet are considered double.  Each foot that is split is considered as two.  What could be the significance of “more” feet?  The Gemara tells us that Malachim (angels) have,

and stand, only on one foot.  This is the explanation why when we daven “Shmone Esrai” we stand with our feet together, as if they are one.  So here we have a “breakthrough”, some insight as to the significance of the number of feet.  Less feet means holiness, aloofness, non-earthly.  More feet means more contact with reality, down to earth, exactly as the expression goes—he has his feet on the ground.  The Malach has one foot, the human two, the animals four, and the kosher ones double.  The significance being the wonderful trait of “maaleh gaira”, the practice of restraint, abstaining from overindulgence which is the trait of ‘prishus’ must go together with ‘mafreses parsa’—down to earth realism.  There is an awesome danger on the path of ‘prishus’ that can lead one to, as the expression goes—“off the deep end”.  This can be seen very well from the contrast between the so-called holy men of the various nations of the world and the ‘kedoshim’ of Klal Yisroel.  The former, deprive themselves of necessities and inflict themselves with torture; what kind of ugly, repulsive human specimens they often appear to be.  The holy men of Klal Yisroel, ‘lehavdil elef havdalos’, shine with beauty and the simchas hachayim they radiate and represent.  This is the concept in the discussion the Mesilas Yesharim has in chapter 13, the delicate balance.  It is the will of Hashem that we enjoy His creation.  The critical rule, “Isn’t it enough that which the Torah forbids that you have to add your own?” concept, in contrast to the “all who engage in fasting are considered kedoshim” idea.

According the this explanation of the concept of ‘mafrisai parsa’ we can understand why the “chazir” is singled out and put in a separate category in the Chumash, and he is indeed the only one who has the split hoof.  According to our suggested concept it means that he has an overemphasis of this trait which leads to a mentality of materialism, and an exclusion and aversion of spiritualism, very appropriate for the ‘chazir’.  The Chazal tell us that all four unclean animals mentioned in the Chumash are symbolic of the four periods of galus, and that our present period is that of the ‘chazir’.  We can see how this is such an accurate picture of our generation.

With this explanation and understanding of the “maaleh gaira”—“mafrisai parsa” balance we can explain the connection to the Nadav and Avihu tragedy.  Their sin was a sort of overemphasis of spiritual enthusiasm without ‘their feet on the ground’ and proper considerations.  HaShem should bless us all with the proper attitude, perspective and balance.